OK, Guys, got the info now. Yes, amazingly AZ had the part, and as far as I know they R the only one that has it. I'm not sure GM even offers it anymore. It has the gray plastic top, and the ECM T sensor has a black top.
I guess they figure that since the stock guage sucks, everyone will have gone to an aftermarket gauge by now. Well U have to plug the hole in the block w something anyway, so why not the sensor ? The AZ part # is Wells # TU152 - Temp switch.
I was using the wrong connector. The sensor actually has 2 prongs if U check close, one big one and a little one next to it, but only one wire. I will also be using a MUCH more accurate Autometer H2O mechanical gauge, so I guess I will be able to at least tell everyone how bad the stock gauge is.