Re: Where are fog lamp and rear hatch relays?
Your hatch circuit is intact because it works with the fob (RKE). There is a 2-wire connector behind the cig lighter. Orange and brown wire. Wires break-out with the cig lighter. The button plugs into these wires. I would start by checking the button connector.
For info: The hatch relay is a white box taped to the main harness about 4" back from the fuse box. Orange, orange/black or tan/blk, and big black wires.
Fog lights:
I'm thinking you can't find the fog relay because it isn't there.
Looking at your previous thread, did you find the car-side of the 2-wire connector over the brake booster? If not, there probably isn't any wiring or relay inside the car. The fog light harness is a stand-alone harness that follows the other dash wiring. What does the switch plug into? If nothing, the wiring has been removed....? The switch has a 3" pigtail on it that plugs into the fog light harness under the dash.
See if you can locate the wiring the switch plugs into. If you can't, I can make up a harness for you, or hit up Aaron to find you a fog light harness from any 1st gen with fog lights during his junkyarding, or Tom probably has one too. . It's all plug and go, if you have incandescent headlights. If you've gone to HID's, there's a mod that has to be made.
Tell Claire I say Hi.
Dave